If you are feeling pressured to have sex, ask yourself why you want to be with someone who pressures you? Maybe they’re not right for you. Other great ideas to help relieve this pressure are going out on group dates, not being isolated, and not being in a ‘secret’ place where nobody can see what you’re doing. Also, try not to be too tired around the person, or use drugs or alcohol. These things will cloud your thinking, and you want to be in an emotional state where you have the ability to say ‘no’ if you want to.
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