Consider why you want to have sex. Answer some of the following questions to gain a better understanding of yourself:

Why do you want to have sex?

a) Because it feels good
b) Because my girlfriend / boyfriend expects it
c) I think I have to; it’s a part of relationships
d) To prove my love to my girlfriend / boyfriend

If a pregnancy or STD was discovered, would my relationship survive?

a) Probably not
b) Definitely not
c) I hope so
d) Yes

If I stopped having sex, would my partner dump me?

a) No, but there would be pressure
b) Yes, definitely
c) I would be too scared to let them know I want to stop
d) No, our relationship would continue

Am I satisfied emotionally with my partner?

a) Our friendship isn’t what it was before sex
b) Friendship? It’s all sex.
c) I just wonder if there’s more…
d) Yes

Take a look at your answers from the quiz and determine if sex is the best choice for you and your relationship right now. If you need someone to talk to about this or other issues, get in touch with YLC – we’re here for you.

我们相信,你的生命举足轻重, 你是值得等待的人. 您的身体, 情绪和心理健康是不可替代的,我们要鼓励你做,你觉得最好的决定. 没有性比没有性生活更安全, 你值得拥有最好的.

请记住,你是重要的. 你的生命举足轻重, 并且你可以在这个世界上的差异. 如果你需要谈论这个或其他任何, 随时取得联系我们. 我们在这里为你.